Here's Your Sign!
Those jokes by Bill Engvall are appropriate here, but only because no one has gotten hurt yet by my sister-in-law's outrageous stupidity. I've just decided that today is the last day Sylvia will be going over there for babysitting.
Some background:
Yes, Holly is a retard. Of mind-staggering proportions. No. Really. Her husband died of a heart attack almost 3 years ago, and since then, she has dated countless men - ALL of whom have met her daughter after the first date which is often a week after she's met them for the first time. Fine, if she wants to set her daughter up to a possible sexual molestation, there's nothing I can do about it. I can't tell her who to have around her daughter because that would just make me "the bitch" sister-in-law, right? Well, I don't like these guys being around MY daughter. That just royally pisses me off, and it's something I have more control over. I spend my days and nights doing whatever it takes to make sure she's safe, and what does Holly do? She lets every fucking strange guy she meets around MY daughter! MY beautiful angel who tells me out of the blue that she loves me and misses talking to me when I'm not there. MY sweet baby who makes her Lamby and Tiger dance on the couch for my amusement and kisses my boo-boos. Yeah, I'm not wild about my sister-in-law's dating habits.
But today was IT. I saw something that really pissed me off. The next door neighbor, a young, single man, was talking to Holly until I pulled into the driveway. As soon as he saw me, he took off for home. I didn't think anything about it. But he came back over to play with the girls - Sylvia, Bailey, and another girl. He wouldn't come within 10 feet of me nor would he look me in the eye at all. It was almost like he was afraid of me. I asked Holly who he was, and she said he was her neighbor and one of her best friends. My daughter knew who this guy was and had been around him many times, and I didn't even know he existed. He went back over to his house, and the girls tried to follow him into his house. Holly was going to let them go into his house, but I called Sylvia back to me. We immediately left for home. It makes me grind my teeth just thinking about how many times he's been alone with my daughter and has possibly had time to do inappropriate things with her.
Maybe I'm just being paranoid. I hope I am, but I've seen too many news stories of little girls molested, raped, and/or murdered. Even if my sister-in-law is so fucking retarded as to allow so many men to have unlimited access to her daughter, I won't allow that access to MY daughter. I want her to grow up. I don't want to have to bury her because Holly is a dumbass.
I talked to Andrew about it tonight because it really bothered me. We agreed that Sylvia won't be going over there anymore. He didn't think I was flipping out over nothing. Seriously. This guy gave off some weird vibes because he was more interested in playing with the little girls rather than talking to two adult women. Maybe he's just shy since he didn't know me, but I'm not going to take that risk.
Some background:
Yes, Holly is a retard. Of mind-staggering proportions. No. Really. Her husband died of a heart attack almost 3 years ago, and since then, she has dated countless men - ALL of whom have met her daughter after the first date which is often a week after she's met them for the first time. Fine, if she wants to set her daughter up to a possible sexual molestation, there's nothing I can do about it. I can't tell her who to have around her daughter because that would just make me "the bitch" sister-in-law, right? Well, I don't like these guys being around MY daughter. That just royally pisses me off, and it's something I have more control over. I spend my days and nights doing whatever it takes to make sure she's safe, and what does Holly do? She lets every fucking strange guy she meets around MY daughter! MY beautiful angel who tells me out of the blue that she loves me and misses talking to me when I'm not there. MY sweet baby who makes her Lamby and Tiger dance on the couch for my amusement and kisses my boo-boos. Yeah, I'm not wild about my sister-in-law's dating habits.
But today was IT. I saw something that really pissed me off. The next door neighbor, a young, single man, was talking to Holly until I pulled into the driveway. As soon as he saw me, he took off for home. I didn't think anything about it. But he came back over to play with the girls - Sylvia, Bailey, and another girl. He wouldn't come within 10 feet of me nor would he look me in the eye at all. It was almost like he was afraid of me. I asked Holly who he was, and she said he was her neighbor and one of her best friends. My daughter knew who this guy was and had been around him many times, and I didn't even know he existed. He went back over to his house, and the girls tried to follow him into his house. Holly was going to let them go into his house, but I called Sylvia back to me. We immediately left for home. It makes me grind my teeth just thinking about how many times he's been alone with my daughter and has possibly had time to do inappropriate things with her.
Maybe I'm just being paranoid. I hope I am, but I've seen too many news stories of little girls molested, raped, and/or murdered. Even if my sister-in-law is so fucking retarded as to allow so many men to have unlimited access to her daughter, I won't allow that access to MY daughter. I want her to grow up. I don't want to have to bury her because Holly is a dumbass.
I talked to Andrew about it tonight because it really bothered me. We agreed that Sylvia won't be going over there anymore. He didn't think I was flipping out over nothing. Seriously. This guy gave off some weird vibes because he was more interested in playing with the little girls rather than talking to two adult women. Maybe he's just shy since he didn't know me, but I'm not going to take that risk.
posted by BigMomma3502 at
1:12 AM
1 Comments:
I find this subject VERY unamusing. Anybody, and I do mean MOST NORMAL PEOPLE, who really like children would not shy away from the parent unless they either had deviant plans in their head OR she (your sis in law) has already completely talked you down to this so called "friend." Either way, you have made the correct decision in my mind. What the fuck kind of person lets other kids they are entrusted with run into some guy's house like that? And you can bet that ain't the first time it's happened, you were just lucky enough to stop it. Kevin Underwood from OK was the downstairs neighbor of the 10 yr. old girl he raped, tortured, and murdered. Use your fucking brains people...
Good call on YOUR part though, Nessie!
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